Kid Fury just went there… there were moments I laughed, I cried, and I stood up and clapped.

This whole thing with Rihanna, Chris, and the girlfriend has been one that’s hard for me to put into words.  Well no, it’s easy for me to verbalize, but difficult to do so without getting literally mad so I’ve just been letting it marinate.  I will say this though.

Rihanna is in melt down mode and has been for a minute. Everything about the way she acts, dresses, walks, talks screams of little girl lost. Or Histrionic Personality Disorder.  I’m not sure which.  Chris Brown is an immature little punk who thinks Rihanna talking to him suddenly gives him a pass or validation that he’s ok and the people of the world are the fucked up ones for not forgiving him for beating that girls ass.  Even if she was the crazy bitch smacking him about the head while he’s driving, there was an obvious use of excessive force involved and acting like a 14 year old douche bag gloating on twitter probably isn’t the best way to proceed here. If Rihanna has forgiven then fine, I’ve been against the constant brow beating and defended Chris, but the way he’s been acting this week on twitter makes me regret it.

I’m mad for Karrueche.  Karrueche had a hard week, and no amount of smiling for the camera’s and insisting everything is ok is going to change the fact that chick got blindsided by a freight train and that’s a shitty place to be.  My only hope for her is she doesn’t dwell in denial for too long. Years are things you can’t get back when the man who claims he loves you is disrespecting you to everyone in the world and calling it “work”.  That is not love.  Which takes me back to Chris Brown.  Abuse is abuse.. even emotional. Fists are not required and  the lyrics on Birthday Cake Remix? Yeah, that’s emotional abuse to your relationship. Super SUPER shitty. Once an abuser, always an abuser I guess.

Any backlash Rihanna get’s for this stunt is natural consequences to really stupid decisions. She deserves every bit of it. She’ll ultimately pay a higher price personally than any damage that will come to her career, but only she is going to get that when she gets it.  She’s all growed up and has to learn from her mistakes like the rest of us. I’ve never been of the position she’s some innocent battered woman in all of this. I’ve heard from too many people in the know to know she’s got issues and no problem putting her hands on a man.

As for Karrueche, I hope she dumps Chris on his ass because he deserves it. Let him and Rihanna do whatever they want to do. A relationship between two completely dysfunctional people is their business.  Having a third person involved is fuck shit.